Khmer Wedding Planning Timeline: What to Do 12 Months Before the Big Day

Start early, stay calm

A Khmer wedding brings together two families, several ceremonies and often hundreds of guests. The earlier you start, the more choice you have and the less stress you carry into the final weeks.

12 to 9 months before

• Talk with both families about the size and style of the wedding.
• Consult an achar or trusted elder to choose an auspicious date.
• Set a rough budget and decide who contributes what.
• Visit and book the reception venue.

8 to 6 months before

• Book the wedding planner or decoration team, photographer and videographer.
• Choose the makeup artist and plan your outfit changes.
• Start your guest list with both families. This always takes longer than expected.

5 to 3 months before

• Confirm the ceremony schedule for each part of the wedding.
• Book the band or MC for the reception.
• Design your invitation, both printed cards for elders and a digital version for everyone else.

2 months before

• Send invitations. Digital invitations can go out in one afternoon.
• Deliver printed cards to elders in person.
• Arrange transport and accommodation for relatives coming from the provinces or abroad.

1 month before

• Follow up with guests who have not replied.
• Give the caterer an estimated headcount.
• Prepare the gift table and a clear way to record wedding gifts.

The final week

• Send a friendly reminder with the time and map.
• Confirm final numbers with the venue.
• Hand the details to a trusted relative so you can rest and enjoy the day.

Make it easier

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